Help! I suck at sales!

I got a post done yesterday.  Yay! I learned more about the relationship between breathing and epilepsy, I watched a youtube video on trading and what to look for when you are trading. Yesterday's trading was meh...I watched a video today from urban trading and I'm going to do one hour trading today. I programmed my phone to only look at the candles right before the hour and right after the hour, so I'm not glued to my screen freaking out about each pip. I started listening to the Accelerated Sales Success audio again.  I was consistent for almost a month and now I'm hopping back on the Think Right Now train.  I want to stay consistent for six months and see if I can't earn a living off of sales. It is a bit tricky since my job isn't in sales and the one that I had in sales, I was fired from. However, my blog is somewhat of a sales machine and some of the affirmations can help with trading psychology, etc. It looks like it will be a bright, sunny day outside ...

I worked on my taxes yesterday and got them done. I had dinner with a friend, who actually gave me some great perspective regarding sales. I have been slacking on listening to Accelerated Sales Success. It is about a month in and I haven't made any sales and got fired from the job that I did have over the phone. My strengths aren't in calling people though. I know that I have difficulty with phone conversations. I was hoping to quickly overcome it and make tons of sales, but perhaps my sales will come in the form of online sales. I enjoy creating things like blog posts and videos, so that would make sense. I worked on my trading yesterday. While I wasn't overly successful, I had some great insights into why I am not succeeding yet. I will get better. I will master sales. I am a master trader. I am an intelligent trader. I am incredibly confident. These are the words that I'm listening to throughout the day. I believe in myself completely.

Getting back on track is always hard. However, I wrote two blog posts today! My goal is to get a video created and two more posts. I want to do twenty posts this week. One set back for me was that I had to go to Costco with my mother, which always mentally puts me out of the writing state. I need to learn how to focus and tell people no without worrying about what they will think.

So, since I got fired from the cold calling job, I spent some time reflecting on sales. I'm excellent at writing and I actually enjoy it a lot more than calling people. So, I'm going to focus on filling out my website this week.  I'm going to focus on my trading. Instead of trying everything under the sun, I'm going to focus on these two things this week. The other thing that I'm going to focus on is going to be improving my health. I'm going to work out more each day, improve my breathing and do the ketogenic diet. I'm setting a goal of writing 20 pages or posts this week.  That's biting off a lot, but I know that I can easily do a post per day.  This will push me to writing 4 posts per day. Today, I'm doing research on topics to write about this week and keywords to include.

I missed a day of blogging and vlogging.  I also missed listening to my accelerated sales success audio.  I'm bummed about that, but I'm getting back on track. I was hoping that the positive affirmations would help me stay on track, but I guess I got derailed when I had to get a new phone and load everything up into the new phone.  That is okay. I'm going to just get back on track and start creating more content. I didn't hear back from Merchant Capital Store regarding my employment with them. However, I found another telemarketing job that I can do over spring break. I printed out the application this morning and plan on scanning it to them this evening or tomorrow morning. Hopefully, I will get hired and be able to make phone calls all next week.  If not, I've got lots of things to do in order to improve my online selling via my review website. I was able to make successful trades today! I also found some other online trading affirmations that I can listen to as...

I was able to get the sales audio on to my iphone this morning. I listened to a bunch of affirmations that I found on trading while I was doing that. I'm not quite sure which direction I should take. I read that you should only focus on one goal at a time. I'm using these thought/behavior modifications to increase my confidence. It isn't where it needs to be yet and I'm not quite having the success that I want to see, but I am doing something that some people don't do. I'm persisting. I'm working through the trials and learning as much as I can.

So, I had to upgrade my phone and I lost the ability to play the audio on my phone.  I'm working on getting it off my computer onto my iphone, but the computer isn't recognizing the iphone in itunes.  So, sadly the experiment of Accelerated Sales Success takes another detour.  I will hopefully get that cued up again, but I'm bummed that I don't have it now.

Since I am testing out this accelerated sales success CD, I felt that I needed a sales position. I didn't hear back from Merchant Capital Store, but I may be okay with that. I have always had a timid disposition on the phone and my natural inclination is to get off the phone as quickly as possible if people don't want to talk to me. That doesn't work so well for sales. So, I applied to a job on craigslist that looks perfect for me.  At least, I hope that it is perfect for me. It emphasized that I didn't need my own transportation because it was close to the metro.  Score! I didn't listen to the accelerated sales success at night last night. My phone was dead and I just didn't feel like cueing it up. So, I decided that listening during the day today would suffice. My consistency is getting better. Hopefully, my self-confidence will improve, my procrastination will fade and I'll start making sales. I'm being more consistent with my blogging, but I need...

I finally was able to talk to the client relationship manager at Merchant Capital Store regarding my poor results with cold calling. In speaking with her, she helped identify the problem, which was that I don't sound confident on the phone. She told me that everything that I say sounds like a question and I need to make it sound like a statement or command. Whoa! I never expected to hear that. I also was reading the script and making it sound like a polished script instead of a conversation. Another mistake. I don't know if they'll let me try cold calling again. We worked together for 45 minutes on the intonation of my voice. I'm a little indifferent if they decide to reinstate me and put me back on the dialer. If I don't do sales on the phone, I can continue to write. Heck, no one cares how my voice sounds in a blogpost. They can read it or pass on it. I'm super excited to be creating more blog content. Today, I did more search engine research. I discove...

Yesterday, I got a video done. I had some trouble posting it. But the amazing thing is that I didn't give up! I was inspired. I also saw that I gained a subscriber yesterday. While I'm sure that won't amount to much, as I'm only at 225 and not even sure if these people are coming back to watch my videos, it pushed me to do more. I also found myself repeating some of the positive affirmations about past sales successes while I was walking home. Even though Accelerated Sales Success is changing my behaviors slowly, it is changing my thought patterns. I still expect it to take 3 full months and I'm only at about 3 weeks. The other thing is that the website creation to gaining regular traffic takes about ninety days, so I shouldn't give up just yet. I just finished my post for today. I decided to do a video this morning of me making kefir . I did a SEMrush search for keywords and chose " what is kefir " as the title of my blog post. I think I w...

I was able to compose a blog post and start a page for rebounding. I love rebounding and decided that I am going to cure my alopecia with rebounding. I made the decision that I would share my journey online. This will raise alopecia awareness. I actually filmed a video this morning of myself without my wig. I realized that if I connect with the alopecia audience there are a lot of people and products that I can reach. It is a really niche market. Not very many people are tapping into it. Only 1% of the population even has alopecia areata. I may be able to make a connection between rebounding and alopecia. If I can heal my alopecia with simple rebounding, I can make a huge impact and create a large audience. So, what is going on with my sales? I have none yet. I am about 21 days into listening and I don't have results. The good news is that I can tell that I am starting to take more and more action towards making sales. I am blogging about it to keep myself accountable. Th...

Maybe taking Sunday off wasn't such a bad idea. I got up this morning and rebounded on my mini trampoline. As I did, I watched some videos and got new content ideas. Not only that, I improved my lung capacity, my muscle tone and my overall health. I love rebounding. So, this week, I will be reviewing rebounders on my website and talking about how rebounding is impacting my health goals. I listened to my Accelerated Sales Success through the night. I really don't have more sales to prove that it works yet, but I am taking it from ground zero. I wasn't in sales to start with and had pretty bad results from the book sales and business that I tried to start. So, we shall see where I am in 90 days. I will be able to say, great product or definitely need to pass on it. My trading today was easier because EUR/USD was in a trend. I looked at it around 80 and thought, I should get in, but I didn't much to my regret. I went to the bathroom and got in at 88. I was pret...

Well, at least I am consistent in journaling this blog about not wanting to work on my sales skills. But, I have made a lot of steps forward in the last week or two for someone who hasn't embraced sales. The key to success is consistently taking steps forward. Even writing this paragraph to say that I listened to my sales success audio is a step in the right direction. I think it would be more helpful to have a sales job where I have to go to every day instead of a substitute teaching position. I'm working on getting one and switching. I do have the cold calling position, which I have been feeling like it doesn't quite work for me and is so hard to get motivated to do it at home after I've worked at my sub job for 7 hours.

I have been procrastinating uploading videos for awhile now. But today, I finally got two of them edited and uploaded to youtube. I also got a comment on one already! I'm happy about that. I know that it will take some discipline to whip out the video camera and get my smiling face on it, but if I am consistent in my attempts, I will get better and better at it. I listened to my sales audio last night and for a little bit today. I didn't not create as much content as I had hoped, but I'm proud to have uploaded a video. I think as my thoughts turn more towards sales, I will get more and more confident in creating things and selling things. Fingers crossed anyway!

Ok, I kind of knew this was coming.  I have been inactivated as a cold caller for Merchant Capital Store.  I'm bummed, but honestly I had been procrastinating my phone calling.  I  was supposed to work with our client relationship manager, but our schedules haven't been working out.  Finally, I had a full day free and planned on making calls, though I dreaded the dialer all morning and considered switching my focus to paid affiliate sales.  I'm still listening to my accelerated sales success and dreaming big, but I think it will be a full 90 days before my actions start to change.  I don't know. Our wonderful client relationship manager got back to me quickly today and asked for a recording of me going over the script.  I created a recording and sent it to her almost immediately.  Maybe the sales success audio is having an impact. I created a blog post today.   Get Back on Your Diet  .  I didn't spend time researching keywo...

So, I have been procrastinating making phone calls for Merchant Capital Store.   I was frustrated that after 12 hours of phone calls, I wasn't able to even get a lead.  I was able to get several emails.  I should have followed up on that.  I listened the accelerated sales success again last night.  It is a simple mental block that is keeping me from taking action. My trading was average yesterday.  The trade that was upside down 30 pips hit and I earned 10 pips from that trade.  I should have taken the ten pips from one of my trades, but set a higher target of 70 pips based on a daily chart.  Towards the end of the day, I think I messed up that trade by putting another trade in on the same instrument.  At any rate, I am learning.  I am becoming more patient in waiting for the signals and becoming more and more aware of the market direction. I did create a blog post yesterday. It was great to get back on track with blogging.  I k...

Well, I didn't do the cold calling that I set as my intention.  So, the sales audio may not be sinking in completely.  I took a night off from listening to it and only listened briefly yesterday.  I was super discouraged.  I'm getting back on track today.  I'm hoping that over time the audios will help me with my motivation to make cold calls or write my blog.  Right now, it takes a great deal of effort to motivate myself to do these things. So, what are my results from a weeks worth of listening to positive affirmations on trading and sales?  Absolutely zero.  Yesterday and the day before, my trading sucked.  I got into trades and put a stop loss at about 10 pips.  Three out of four times, I got stopped out right before it hit my target.  😕  Luckily it was in my micro account and all I lost was $3.  My biggest problem is not holding on long enough to my winning trades.  My losing trades I tend to hold on to too lo...

Ok, so Saturday and Sunday were not especially productive.  One thing I decided on Sunday was that I would really try the phone sales again.  I haven't heard back from our client relationship manager in terms of helping me connect with the people on the phone, but I decided I'd do four hours of calling everyday this week.  I have Friday off from substitute teaching, so this will give me an opportunity to make some money. I have been consistent for 8 days on listening at least four hours per day.  I also listened all night most nights.  There was one night where it turned off on me and when I awoke, the affirmations weren't playing. One thing that I spontaneously did yesterday was watch price action youtube videos to educate myself more on price action trading and gain some tips for entries and exits.  That is great.  I did a close gap trade in my demo account and earned 8 pips, which is not a lot, but a good feeling.  I will start doing more of ...

During the week, I decided that I'd use today to spruce up my content, create backlinks and upload videos. 👍 I'm excited about my progress.  I am gradually focusing more and more on my trading as well as selling online. 😎 I wish I could say that I'm doing well with my cold calling for the Merchant Capital Store credit card processing service, but I'm struggling to see how the numbers will work.  I'm not getting ahold of the decision makers and I get really bored while I call.  I've contacted our manager to work with her on determining whether the person on the other end is interested.  It may be that I just need some tweaking and I'll start to make sales or that I need to explore another avenue altogether.  Either way, I should find out this week. I listened to my Accelerated Sales Success audio last night.  I have a solid week of consistently listening under my belt.  It has not transformed into sales for me yet, but people are reporting that it ta...

I got really discouraged after twenty minutes of cold calling, so I didn't spend four hours on the phone yesterday.  I think because I was unable to get a lead after ten hours of calling, it just wasn't adding up to me numbers wise.  I know other people are getting results with the cold calling, but I just wasn't getting to the decision makers, which was increasingly frustrating.  So, I started reading the affiliate marketing book more and downloaded an indicator for forex. I was able to hit my goal of listening for four hours to the Accelerated Sales Success audio.  Now, I've done it consistently for a week.  It is supposed to created change in three months.  Whoa.  That is a lot of listening, but I am going to go through with it.  It isn't difficult.  I am creating a blog and that is a wonderful thing.  I know as long as I can get people to my blog, I can get sales.  Creating the blog posts are getting easier and easier, which i...

Yesterday, I listened to a training for the credit card processing telesales position that I had almost given up on.  It was frustrating to hear that other people had success with generating leads with the script and I had not.  The new relationship manager offered to help me, so I took her up on the offer despite my idea that I would love creating a blog more than calling people.  Maybe it is the  Accelerated Sales Success  getting into my head.  I didn't want to give up, but I just couldn't see how I was going to get leads if I didn't even have one after twelve hours of calling and not really even getting ahold of the people in charge. Today's goals include: -researching a keyword -creating a keyword rich blogpost -backlinking to at least three different websites -20 pips in trading -4 hours listening to the Accelerated Sales Success Audio -4 hours of cold calling I've noticed that I'm starting to set goals, which is one of the positive affirma...

As far as creating product blog posts and pages everyday, I'm getting the hang of it.  I listened to  Accelerated Sales Success  all last night in order to boost my motivation and sales activity levels.  I haven't seen an increase in money, but it has only been consistent for about a week.  I'm giving it 3-6 months and hoping to see a massive result, but I'll keep you posted.  It could be a complete bust.  I'm not really expecting a ton of traffic to my website for at least ninety days.  I'm doing the low cost/free organic method of creating the niche site using SEO.  I know SEO works because I used it for my book.  I just have to be consistent about posting and selective with my keyword research, etc. Today's goals: -research keywords and come up with blog post ideas -create a blog post with the keywords -backlink it to at least 3 sites (I want to get up to ten sites per day, but yesterday only got 3 links) -get my videos posted t...

I got my second post done yesterday.  When I previewed it, the pictures didn't seem like they were in the right place.  I decided that I would push forward and create a new page today and use Saturday to spruce up the pages and posts that I create this week. Today's goals are to🙌 -research a related blog post topic -create a keyword rich blog page -create backlinks to the website page -upload to youtube the videos that I created -listen to my Accelerated Sales audio for 4 hours during the day The  Accelerated Sales Success  audio is creating some momentum in my actions.😁  I gave up on cold calling last week, but yesterday I decided I could try it again.  Mostly because today we have a snow day and it is an opportunity to work even though I feel like I'm not making progress through cold calling.  I like creating a niche website with product reviews because it is something that I can easily see progress on whether or not I am making sales. I...

Well, I set some goals to get even more done in the evening yesterday and I fell short.  I did learn how to get some back linking done!  I changed the theme to something that looked a little better for the page. I completed some back-linking yesterday and created a video, but I didn't upload the video and create another piece of content.  😟I slipped back into thinking that I couldn't be consistent with my blog. I did listen to my  Accelerated Sales Success  audios yesterday, which was important.  As I hear the positive suggestions more and more, I know they will help me change the mental failure patterns that I have.  I need to make sure that I don't quit.  Right now, I know that if I can keep it up for 90 days, I can switch over and make it a habit.  There was a part of me that was reading about paid affiliate marketing, which has a faster return on investment.  I was tempted to switch goals to something easier, however, I have a tend...

Right now, if you scoot on over to  http://www.getfitandhealthyathome.com/cheapest-treadmill-desk-workstation/ you will see my first post for my niche website and it is awful!  (I am planning on jazzing it up this week, so if you are viewing this post after March 2017, it may not look so horrible!)  I am pointing this out only because I did something that many people (even myself at times) do not do and that is get started and put something out there that isn't perfect. Here are some of my wins from yesterday: I installed wordpress on my blog I installed the wordpress plug-in for EasyAzon to make creating product review pages easier I created my first post with keywords (treadmill desk workstation) I monetized my site using Amazon I also went to the library and picked up a book on information marketing and affiliate marketing I did some research on treadmill desks to get an idea of keywords that I can rank for and drive traffic to Needs improvement: The look o...

This was the trickiest thing for me to do.  I wanted to research the heck out of the URL, but I knew that my pages and posts would more likely be ranking for different categories and keywords.  The other thing is that I wanted to do something that I was interested in and something that would make money.  I picked the uber popular fitness category.  My reasoning is that I am already interested in fitness at home, I have a ton of things that I have already purchased from Amazon that I could review on a video from home.  Fitness is fun and it intrigues me! I realized today while I skipped the exercise of writing down twenty things to make a niche page about, I could easily write down twenty products to review. I actually bought the URL today, set up wordpress and made some headway setting up EasyAzon plug in.  Unfortunately, I got an error message.  I quickly emailed support at EasyAzon and gave them my credentials and details in hopes that they would...

After doing 3 days of telemarketing for four hours a day and coming up with one possible lead that only wanted to review our material and not speak with a specialist, I began to really question whether cold calling was going to work for me in the sales position that I chose.  I just had a difficult time seeing the numbers as I called multiple fax machines and wrong numbers on my third day.  I didn't mind the rejection, but I found myself bored out of my mind and falling asleep when I was sitting down.  I was more focused on jogging on my treadmill when I was at my treadmill desk. So, I made a decision yesterday, to suck it up and get to work creating content.  I love writing.  I don't really even mind researching or doing videos so much.  I have gotten my content ranked on google before.  It is something that I am confident that I can accomplish.  My biggest mistake before was trying to promote myself as a coach before I had confidence in myself...

I recently decided I needed to increase my income and get out of education.  I don't want to go back to college.  I have plenty of college behind me.  My skills at writing and researching are fantastic.  However, I've always struggled with the idea of getting other people to buy things.  My book, Seizure Free , sells on Amazon because I used keywords in the title.  That's great, but I didn't use keywords in the title of my other books and they are failing at selling. Since the state of Virginia still wants to limit my driving privileges because I'm not medicating and have had seizures in the past, I decided to look into work from home opportunities.  I signed up to be a telemarketer with a credit card processing company this week.  Ack!  The dreaded telemarketer.  What I've learned about this is that I can do it.  I can get rejected.  I can be disciplined and make four hours worth of disappointing phone calls.  The other...